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Exploring Bisexuality & Open Marriage - Part 2 of 3

December 23, 2022 Sarah Sekoa Season 1 Episode 4

Sarah and Yvette get candid about personal experiences in the realms of bisexuality and polyamory, aka ethical non-monogamy and open relationships in a three part series. This is part 2.


-Yvette and her husband’s unique and evolving open marriage dynamics

-Caution in exploring and changing the relationship rules

-Sarah’s experience facing deeply rooted fears around sexual freedom, deconstructing from Christian fundamentalist purity culture upbringing, and an open relationship with a “wild man” 

-So much establishing of trust through non-judgmental vulnerable exploration through conversation

-Polyamory as friendship that includes sharing in sexual and sensual pleasure in the same ways we share in other pleasures

-Making up the rules in each unique relationship

-Compersion - experiencing pleasure in imagining or witnessing the other person’s sexual pleasure with someone else

-Reflections on same sex and group sex exploration

-How sex keeps getting better and evolving and expanding into more, beyond what we had previously imagined

-Facing the fear of judgment about having these conversations publicly

-For Sarah, sexuality and spirituality are inextricably tied, and liberation in both areas has been intertwined

-Facing societal and cultural assumptions and judgments


Intro/outro song: "Stop That Holy Dance" by Climber. Listen to Climber music on Spotify: shorturl.at/ouxS2
used with permission.

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